My least favorite phrase in the English language is “Why are you so dressed up?” Not because people aren’t nice when they ask — they always are, of course, because they always assume I’m up to something fun, something that requires getting dressed up — but because the underlying assumption is that looking nice on a Tuesday is the same as being “dressed up.”
Last week, I went to the capitol with my son’s fifth grade class, for the lighting of the state Christmas tree. It was a typical crazy outing with kids, but it was also a fun way to start the holiday season. A little bling seemed appropriate, of course. Why not?
Here’s the thing about this outfit: it is basically a t-shirt and a denim skirt. You know, the uniform of soccer moms everywhere. And yes, the skirt is a pencil skirt, and the tee has a little more substance and structure than your basic mom tee, but still, the bones of this look are simple, easy, casual pieces (all machine washable, as a bonus).
The holiday season is a good time to ramp up your everyday style; start with your usual basics and add a pretty pair of earrings and a scarf. Or pile on multiple bracelets or necklaces — or both! Or leave your parka in the closet and get out your dressy coat instead. Any of these strategies will take your jeans-and-tee (or sweater) look to a new level.
Do you ever get “dressed up” for no reason at all? What’s your strategy for turning your mom uniform into something more interesting? Or are you stuck in a yoga pants rut?
I need to know where to get this necklace, I’m in love!
I need to know where to find this necklace, I’m in love!
Ditto on the necklace, too cute. Always love seeing a great ‘statement necklace’ worn out and about!
Thanks, girls! The necklaces are from J. Crew; I found the pearls on eBay and the one with the crystals I bought from a friend who wore it for her wedding.
Search eBay for J. Crew jewelry — there are quite a lot of pieces from past seasons for sale. Or! Stella & Dot has some STUNNING pearl statement necklaces.
Oh, I completely understand. I often answer, “I work from home, but I am still heading in to work.” I truly believe I am more productive and happier when I am dressed up. Plus, what I am wearing during those times are ME. That’s worth the silly comments.
And also? “Piling on” is one of my favorite style strategies. Especially with jewelry.
Love this post so much.
Also? It seems like if you wear a bright statement piece (a la your coat) people assume you are ‘dressed up’.
I love that. A mess o’ necklaces and a bright coat – cocktail time in the carpool line!
Getting dressed up for no reason is the new me. Even if I’m going to and from the gym, I try to wear things that fit nicely and match. (I may even match my gym tote and sneakers in bright colors.)
I like to think of it as a courtesy to everyone else who has to look at me.
I’m often the most “dressed up” one. It goes back to my mom’s lesson to me that it is better to be overdressed than underdressed. Also, I feel so much more ready to take on the world when I look nice.
Love the pink coat!
Susan, you inspired me to start wearing more skirts this summer and I try to dress nicer one day a week now that my younger son is 2 1/2 and I’m not getting spit up on, etc. any more. I live in Montana which is pretty casual (ladies wear jeans to showers which bothers me) and often I am one of the most dressed up people in the room. We’re moving back to Texas soon so I know I will have to step up my game when I’m in the Lone Star state.
Every thing about that look is awesome. I am in year, oh, 6 of my fashion rut. I think it’s a lifestyle choice now. However, I always love to see someone taking the extra 30 seconds (that I can’t seem to) to add the little finishing touches.